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CharismaticMex's Pornstar Interview

My Pornstar Interview
I create space for successful men to let go and exhale.

If you value ease, discretion, and authentic connection without performing, I'm here. I offer genuine presence, whether it's an ongoing monthly arrangement or extended time together.

✅ 6'5" Latino
✅ Sensual, attentive service
✅ Foot worship (sz 13)
✅ 8.5” uncut
✅ Real companionship

24-48hr notice before meeting preferred. Selectively accepting new clients.

📍 Oakland based, can travel
Q: What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?

A: Small plug: this is both a hobby and a side hustle. I am a pet & house sitter. As an avid traveler (another favorite hobby of mine), I’ve recently begun house and pet sitting as a way to cut expenses like hotels/airbnbs to care for people’s homes and their pets while they’re away on traveling for work, vacation, or need assistance caring for their home and pets.

I’ve learned I’m great at this and it comes natural. I have my own dog, Chico, a pitbull terrier mix, who I’ve had for over 5 years now and recently did a house and pet sitting for a client from the RM site from Dec 2024 - Jan 2025 while they traveled.

It’s a great way to combine my love for travel, pets, and being of service to other people. I use a site called TrustedHouseSitters, but if you’re ever looking for a trusted pet or house sitter — let me know. I’m happy to discuss more details and even provide my personal website showcasing my experience as a dog and house sitter, as well as previous experience.

Q: What distinguishes you from all the other people you know?

A: I am a man of my word and I let my actions speak louder than words. I do what I say I’ll do, and I’m transparent and honest with people. I’m not here to manipulate or lead people on, I’m a straight-forward and genuine guy.

Also, I’m always passport ready to travel, so if you’re someone who’s looking for a travel buddy, just know I am ready. I’m not someone that just says things just to say ‘em, I mean what I say.

So if you’re down, I’m down!

Q: How do you go the 'Extra Mile' in your life?

A: I go the "extra mile" in my life by taking risks that feel right to me. I depend and allow my intuition to guide me, and even when things feel risky and scary, I know I can trust myself and my intuition to allow things to unfold and happen the way they're meant to... sometimes this gives me a rush of adrenaline and excitement, ending up in spontaneous plans and adventures. If my body and gut are saying it's the right choice to make, no matter how risky, I'll go ahead and do it. I have the utmost trust in myself.

Q: Tell us about the best experience you have had in life.

A: My greatest life experience happens right now, in every moment. It's having the privilege to breathe, feeling the skin on my skin, being able to see, hear, and walk everyday, these are the greatest life experiences. It's the life experiences that a majority of us take for granted, not knowing that at any moment we could lose them. I'm grateful for all the little things and the big things in my life, down to the ground I get to stand and walk on. Every day is truly a great day and a blessing. Knowing this, my greatest life experiences come out of genuine joy, excitement, following my passion, taking risks that feel right to me, and living my life based on what feels good and right... and then allowing it all to unfold.

Q: What do you enjoy most about yourself?

A: I love that I take initiative and do the things I say I'll do. I used to be someone that would constantly complain about my situation and life, and I'd honestly victimize myself, until I realized that my life is in my own hands. No one else has an impact more on my life than me. And when I had this realization, it was life changing.

I began to change my mindset and the way I lived life. Living it for myself, instead of living it for other people and their expectations. I realized that I'm not on this earth to "please" everyone -- I'm here to live as I am. It's like Joseph Campbell's saying, "The privilege of a lifetime is to be who you are."

And that's exactly what I aspire to every day. Living as who I am.

Q: What would you say are your greatest attributes?

A: I'm thinking about this question as if I were a friend to myself... 3rd person perspective. Honestly, I believe that I have many great personal traits. My empathy and compassion are one of my greatest traits. I've always tapped into empathy and compassion, the feeling of relating to people and feeling their emotions, and deeply understanding them and where they're coming from -- even people that we would label as "bad people" are people who come from hurt and damaged backgrounds and experiences.

I would never judge anyone outright because we never know what people have or are going through. There's always a deeper story and reason behind everything. We just might not know it on the surface level, but on an empathetic and compassionate level, we can allow ourselves to explore that deeper reason and understanding and see where people are coming from. Authentic and genuine human connection is what I'm all about. Including the good, the bad, and the ugly, but we're all human at the end of the day.

It's our first time living life. Let's have compassion for ourselves and others.

Q: What would you like your readers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?

A: I grew up at a young age undergoing multiple surgeries all over my body due to a genetic disorder I live with called "Marfan's Syndrome."

I've had surgeries for hernias, my chest (pectus excavatum if you'd like to google it), and now, recently, my eyes for retina detachment. In total, I've undergone ten surgeries in my lifetime. And I'm only 23.

Living with a medical condition that poses health challenges isn't for the faint of heart (which is funny because Marfan's also impacts my heart), but it's taught me how to be resilient and strong in my life. Going through surgery can be a traumatic experience, and it has been. thankfully, as a young adult, I'm facing those traumas and healing from them... and I'm coming out of it with so much gratitude.

It's shifted my mindset to believe and know that everything happens for a good reason. But it's up to each of us individually to view the experience, either as positive or negative, and to take away the lessons we're meant to. Most importantly, it's taught me to live fully and show up as my authentic self.

Q: What kind of diet and fitness regimen do you follow?

A: I don't personally follow a specific diet or fitness. I do what feels right for my body. Lately, this has been doing yoga and stretching for mobility and flexibility, engaging in meditation and breathwork, and going on daily walks/jobs for my cardiovascular health, which is essential for me.

I used to go to the gym almost every day, but my priorities have shifted ever since I underwent retina detachment surgery in both my eyes in June and July 2024. I can't lift heavy while I allow my eyes to heal, which has allowed me to get into other diet/fitness activities that are good for my mental health and feel right for my body.

I've begun consuming lots of vegetables as part of my daily diet, and I'm into juicing. I started juicing in July 2024 as a way to help me with my recovery process after my eye surgeries and let me tell you; it's the best thing I've done for myself.

I believe in following a diet and fitness regimen that works for you, your goals, and your body.

Q: What is your specialty?

A: My "niche" being on here is being the dominant, in-control jock guy. I attract and align well with submissive guys who are into tall (6'5"), big cock (8.5"), big feet (size 13), and Latinos. I get a lot of guys who are often in charge during the day at their jobs or personal lives, and then at night in the bedroom, they want to turn that "control" switch off and allow someone else to take control. That's where I cum in (pun, wink wink).

I've gotten lots of positive feedback from past clients for my deep voice, my big cock, my nice lips, my smooth skin, and how attentive and present I am with them during our sessions (both sexual and non-sexual).

I'm someone who also asks A LOT of questions. Before we meet, I would like to know what you're into, what you're not into, what you're looking to get out of meeting with me, and how I can ensure you have the best possible experience without feeling embarrassed. I have very few limits, and I've participated in fantasies and sessions that most guys wouldn't ask their usual partner or a random guy on Grindr.

I don't judge or shame people. I'm completely open-minded. I have many stories to tell if you want to hear them. Lol.

Q: What do you do for fun?

A: I have so many hobbies and things I do for fun.

I'm a dancer. Since May 2023, I've taken dance classes in: Hip Hop, Bachata, Salsa, Cumbia, and Merengue. I love dancing and moving my body. I've learned to re-connect with my body which is important to me because I grew up throughout my childhood undergoing surgeries on my body, including my abdomen, chest, and now eyes. Due to undergoing surgeries due to a medical condition I have called Marfan's Syndrome, I had an unhealthy and non-existent relationship with my body. Dancing has now reconnected me with my body, and helped me in loving myself fully. I go to dance socials and take classes any chance I get :)

I also love hiking and being in nature. It's something about hiking and nature that brings peace, adventure, and excitement. I love going off-trail and exploring new places, following my curiosity.

Something new that I'm planning to take up is swimming. I have no idea how to swim, and it's about time I learn how to.

Also love traveling, meeting new people, and socializing with people. I've recently subscribed to an app where I have dinner with strangers every week with the goal of meeting new people.

Q: How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?

A: I travel often. In 2024 alone, I've had the opportunity to travel to: San Diego, Washington DC, Miami, Pittsburgh, and Mexico City. I plan to continue my travels because I'm an adventurer. I've always followed my intuition and curiosity from a young age, and my curiosity leads me towards traveling and experiencing this beautiful world. I plan to continue travelling internationally and visit more countries in Latin America. I have a personal goal, that I will accomplish, to visit every single continent in the world and to visit EVERY country in Latin America. The good thing about the second goal is I'm fluent in Spanish :)

Q: What should others absolutely know about you?

A: This summer 2024, I underwent a life-changing, transformative experience that happened to me unexpectedly. While visiting Pittsburgh in early June, I had simultaneous retinal detachment in both eyes. I underwent emergency surgery in my left eye at UPMC on June 26th to save my vision as I last part of it. Thankfully, the surgery was a success and I flew back to Vegas a few days later and proceeded to undergo 2 more surgeries on my right and left eye on July 8th and July 16th. 3 surgeries total. This experience of almost losing my vision has given me a lot to think about, and I took a 2 month break from RM, and now I'm back as of August 21st, 2024, as a new person. A more confident, grounded person that's living life to the fullest. I share this not for pity, but to share an empowering and life-changing experience that's changed my life for the better. I see everything optimistically, and I know that this happened for my greatest good. I'm a resilient guy, and I'm so glad that i've recovered smoothly.

CharismaticMex

Location: Oakland, CA
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Near travel Walnut Creek, CA
Near travel Berkeley, CA
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