A: My whole life, people have told me they feel they can be themselves around me. And there is nothing more beautiful than seeing people for who they are and lifting them up in authenticity.
A: I travel more frequently than almost anyone I know. Really, I live between three cities - Toronto, Buffalo and Philly - and visit other places pretty often as well. That said, it is important for me to maintain my home base in Toronto and to nourish my roots in a few special places, and I love having people over.
A: Time, space and supplies to cook for others (even though I can make a mess sometimes).
Space to myself, even just once in a while.
Chosen family.
Wheels.
Sex.
A: I am a nerd, a special kind of nerd at that. Recent hobbies and projects include: bikes, gym times, zines, the ballroom scene, collecting vintage porn, Letraset, typewriters, mimeographs/risographs and other obsolete printing equipment (and refurbishing them!), printing in general, activism, harm reduction, DIY lube making, fermentation, karaoke, dumpster diving, creative cooking, sewing, dreaming
A: I'm a big, beefy, bear with a big chest, tree trunk legs and real man's belly — if that doesn't make me stand out on a site like this, then I don't know what does!
But beyond my looks, I do seem to be sprinkled with some kind fairy dust that draws people to me. People tell me they know they can just be themselves with me. I'm really proud of this superpower, and I don't take the trust of others lightly. I'm grateful to have learned a lot from so many people hailing from vastly different walks of life, and I've found myself in many, many unusual and amazing spaces and moments. I guess I'm a worldly guy, and I tend to know a lil something about everything. I love to talk and love to listen, just as much as I love to f_ck
A: I Am sensual and charming, so I am told. I am a bon-vivant and I like to bring others along with my in my pleasure seeking adventures, be they food, sex, travel or exploration. I am a big listener and I am endlessly curious about people. My friends tell me they appreciate me because I can listen without trying to solve everything or lecture anyone, but offer helpful thoughts when required.
A: Above all, my day to day is driven by curiosity and learning. I love people who have lived very different lives from my own, and I consume media, conversation, pleasure and experience voraciously. I have never enjoyed working traditional jobs or staying put for long — rather, I like to make deep connections in many different places Some might call me a wild child or a punk — I'm certainly not run of the mill.
A: I love to bike around the city and on longer jaunts. I am always cooking. I am a visual artist working in print and zines. I'm an activist. I love travelling. I like going to the cinema when I can, or to theatre and cultural events. And baby, I love to dance when the mood strikes and the music hits right! Also an Olympian karaoke-ist if I do say so myself
A: I am a hot, horny, slutty bear cub! I am a big beefy boy with a belly, and thats what many of my clients like about me, whether I am their usual type or a surprising new interest.