A: Mornings start with a workout in the park, followed by walks and playtime with my dog. My work is a mix of writing for my sex education blog and filming Kink Curious, my educational-erotic series. I tend to work a lot, but I’m learning to set time aside to unwind—whether that’s binging White Lotus, discovering hidden-gem restaurants, or watching the sunset somewhere beautiful. ADHD keeps me on my toes, but if it’s on my calendar, it’s happening.

A: That depends—do you want a wild story or a deep conversation? I could tell you about the time I fisted someone in a shed on a random Tuesday afternoon. Or I might ask you what you think the meaning of life is. For me, life is about becoming more and more authentically yourself. I believe we’re each a unique, irreplaceable piece of a much bigger puzzle. And throughout our life we are refining closer and closer to the perfect piece we are meant to be.

A: I show I care by being fully present. Whether it’s a partner, a friend, or even a first date, I love spending time doing what excites them. Little thoughtful gestures, like bringing breakfast in bed or planning a night around their favorite things, come naturally to me. Making someone feel seen and appreciated is one of my greatest joys.

A: Beyond my height (yes, I’m really 6’4"), what sets me apart is my authenticity. People tell me they feel empowered to be themselves around me, without judgment or pressure. I take things at a natural, unrushed pace—whether that’s a conversation, a connection, or something more. One of my favorite compliments I often hear is "I feel like I can be myself with you."

A: Meeting someone new can feel intimidating, but I want you to know there’s no shame in connecting here. I’ll make sure you feel completely at ease. We can take things at whatever pace feels comfortable for you. People often tell me they find it easy to open up to me—I’m naturally curious, completely non-judgmental, and always my authentic self.