A: I’d tell you that I’m ambitious and always thinking about what I want to do next with my life but that I’m also learning to appreciate what’s happening right now rather than constantly chasing the next thing.

I’d tell you I love travelling beautiful places keeping fit and creating a life that feels exciting rather than predictable.

I’d probably also admit that beneath the confidence I’m quite affectionate sentimental and a sucker for genuine connection.!!!! I like people who can drop the facade and just be themselves.

Then somewhere along the way I’d probably stop talking about myself and start asking about you, because I’m naturally curious about people :-),

Those are usually my favourite conversations anyway. The ones that start with completely harmless questions over dinner and somehow, a couple of hours later you’re talking about things neither of you expected to share.

A: Travel for sure! I need something to look forward to and somewhere new to discover.

Training… It keeps me physically and mentally grounded.

Good food!!! Preferably somewhere beautiful with good company.

Affection MUST, I’m much more affectionate than people probably expect.

My passport hah, Because apparently I’m incapable of staying in one place forever.

I’d sneak coffee in as number six if nobody was watching. Heheehe

A: That chemistry matters to me.

Physical attraction might be what initially gets two people interested in each other but it’s rarely what makes an experience memorable.

For me it’s the energy between two people. Feeling relaxed wanted respected and comfortable enough to actually be yourself.

I never want someone to feel judged around me. People have different desires personalities and reasons for wanting company, and I think being open about minded about that makes everything much more enjoyable.

If we can talk laugh flirt and feel completely comfortable around each other, everything else tends to fall into place naturally.

A: Training would probably be my biggest hobby. It clears my head and gives me something measurable to constantly improve.

I also love travel discovering restaurants hotels, beaches and anything involving wellness or looking after myself.

I’m naturally curious too so I can go down random rabbit holes learning about places I want to visit businesses fitness food or whatever happens to have my attention that week.

And occasionally my favourite hobby is doing absolutely nothing. Good food, a comfortable bed, someone I enjoy being around and no alarm the following morning sounds pretty perfect to me.

A: For me it’s usually in the details.

I pay attention. I remember things people tell me notice what makes them comfortable and try to make experiences feel thoughtful rather than generic.

I’m the same professionally and personally. If I care about something, i don’t really know how to give it 50%.

And when I’m spending time with someone, I want them to feel like I’m actually there with them. Phone away, present interested and enjoying the moment rather than mentally thinking about whatever I’m doing next.

That kind of attention is becoming surprisingly rare now days….

A: A bit of everything.

Gym is obviously a big one for me but outside of that I love travelling, beaches, restaurants, hotels, wellness, spontaneous weekends away and discovering new places!!

I’m quite social when I’m in the mood but I definitely don’t need to be surrounded by people constantly. Sometimes the best night is great food one person I genuinely like being around and nowhere else we need to be.

I also love laughing. Proper stupid can’t breathe kind of laughing. If someone can make me laugh and we have chemistry they’ve already got a pretty unfair advantage with me.

A: Rather than one particular moment I think travelling and experiencing different parts of the world has probably shaped me the most.

Being somewhere completely unfamiliar teaches you a lot about yourself. It gives you perspective, makes you more independent and reminds you how enormous the world is outside your everyday routine. (Quite literally)

Some of my favourite memories are actually the smaller moments within those trips. Sitting somewhere beautiful thinking, How am I actually here? Meeting someone completely different to me stumbling across somewhere that wasn’t planned or having one of those nights that becomes a story you tell for years.

Those experiences have made me want a life filled with memories rather than simply possessions.

A: Probably the contrast.

I take fitness seriously I’m confident and I know what I want so people sometimes expect me to have a certain personality before they meet me.

Then they discover I’m actually very affectionate, conversational, curious and probably a little more sensitive than they expected.

I can enjoy dressing up and going somewhere beautiful just as much as I can lie around laughing with someone in private. I know how to hold a conversation but I also know when conversation isn’t necessary.

And I think I’m good at reading people. Everyone has different personalities boundaries and desires. I don’t think connection comes from following the same script with everyone.

A: I’d say loyalty, ambition, affection, curiosity and emotional awareness.

I’m very driven when I decide I want something sometimes probably a little too driven but that determination has shaped a lot of who I am.

With people I’m very different. I’m attentive and naturally affectionate and I tend to notice the smaller things. I like making people feel comfortable around me rather than feeling like they have to impress me.

I’m also genuinely interested in other people’s lives. Everyone has a story and I love hearing about where someone has been what they’ve experienced what they want next and the things they normally don’t get asked about.

A: I’d probably describe it as genuine companionship with chemistry.

I love attraction and physical chemistry obviously but I think what makes spending time together memorable is everything around it. Conversation, affection, humour, feeling comfortable with each other and being able to actually enjoy the person you’re with.

I can be confident and assertive but I’m also naturally attentive and affectionate. Whether we’re having a drink, going somewhere for dinner, travelling together relaxing privately or disappearing from the world for a few hours I like things to feel natural.

I don’t want someone walking away thinking they simply met the guy from the photos.

A: Definitely a traveller.

There’s something about arriving somewhere I’ve never been before that instantly excites me. I love beautiful hotels beaches restaurants different cultures and discovering places that feel completely removed from everyday life.

I’m also a great travel companion because I’m pretty adaptable. Give me an itinerary and I’m happy, but tell me we’re changing everything at the last minute and going somewhere unexpected and I’m probably even happier.

That said I’m not someone who constantly needs stimulation. With the right person, I’m equally happy ordering food switching my phone off and spending the night doing absolutely nothing.

So I’d say adventurous traveller with a very comfortable homebody side.

A: Fitness is definitely part of my lifestyle rather than something I force myself to do.

I train consistently throughout the week mostly focused on strength and physique and I like pushing myself physically. There’s something addictive about seeing what your body is capable of when you stay disciplined.

I’m also pretty structured with what I eat and generally prioritise good quality food, plenty of protein and meals that support my training also I’m GLUTEN FREE!

That being said, I’m not going to be the person sitting across from you at an incredible restaurant eating plain chicken out of Tupperware. Life’s too short for that. If we’re somewhere amazing I’m absolutely ordering something good.

A: My lifestyle is a mixture of discipline and enjoying life.

I train regularly look after myself work hard and I’m usually planning or working towards something. I’m ambitious by nature and I don’t think I’d ever be particularly good at sitting still for too long.

At the same time, I love the good parts of life. Travelling somewhere beautiful an amazing hotel finding a great restaurant being by the ocean long dinners spontaneous plans and spending time with people whose company I genuinely enjoy.

I think what makes me who I am is that balance. I want to achieve a lot with my life, but I never want to become so focused on what’s next that I forget to actually enjoy where I am.

A: I’m probably more sentimental than people expect.

I can come across quite confident and self assured but underneath that I’m a very affectionate person. I remember little details about people and I genuinely care about how someone is feeling and I have a pretty big soft spot for meaningful conversations.

I also think I’m someone who feels things quite deeply. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realised that genuine connection matters to me much more than surface level attention.

Of course attraction and chemistry are important but there’s something incredibly sexy about being around someone where you can completely relax, laugh, talk about anything and just enjoy being in each other’s space.

A: That I’m much more than what you initially see in photos.

Obviously I take care of myself and fitness is a big part of my life, but I’m probably most drawn to people I can genuinely connect with. I love proper conversation, affection, laughing at stupid things, hearing someone’s stories and getting to know what makes them tick.

I’m also very respectful of people’s boundaries and privacy. I never want someone to feel like they have to perform or be anyone other than themselves around me.

The best interactions for me are the ones where you forget about the outside world for a while, relax enjoy each other’s company and everything just feels easy.

A: Probably the fact that there are quite a few different sides to me. I can be confident, ambitious and very driven when I want something but I’m also genuinely affectionate and quite soft with people I’m comfortable around.

I care a lot about the people in my life and I’m naturally someone who wants others to feel comfortable, appreciated and looked after. I also love that I’m curious. I’m always wanting to experience somewhere new, meet different people, learn something, improve myself or work towards the next goal.

I definitely don’t have everything figured out, but I think that’s part of what keeps life interesting. I’m always evolving, and I actually really like that about myself.