A: I'm going to redefine terms here - there isn't really "spare" time, but only time and how I spend it. So when I'm not working I practice yoga, paddleboard, love my partners, dance, hike, read, contemplate ...
A: Life and mine in particular is hella fun I have to say. Ecstatic for lots of it. Im definitely in the luckiest 1% of the planets population just by virtue of being able to type this, let alone everything else. 99% of the planet would *love* to have my challenges. Still, most people arent having fun most of the time - even those like me who are in the same 1% - economically, culturally, socially, etc.
More concretely: Hang with friends. Be alone. Help others. Be physical. Be in my body instead of my head. Love.
Im a sensualist - smells, tastes, sensations, hearing, seeing, etc. are all very often dripping in ecstasy for me. Thats a LOT of fun lol.
As it turns out fun is also a great signpost for spiritual practice - if Im not experiencing more and more things as fun over time, its a sign that my practice has stagnated.
A: honestly - I don't think I do lol 🤷♂️
A: Sharing / providing intentional boundlessly loving touch to men. Quite often that opens for the client into an experience that goes beyond pleasure and opens something new for them.
A: My tantra teachers have pointed out how distorted my own self image is so this question is a good practice for me to honour those things I appreciate in myself.
My deeply loving heart, my generous helpful spirit, my open curious attitude to life and people, my finely tuned intuition, my respect for truth above all, my persistent openness to realizing my true nature, my ability to transform more easily than many, my gifts with healing transformative touch, my increasing ability to be as compassionate with myself as I am to others
Taking a moment to absorb that and be with it ... much to my surprise my ego isnt inflating, its fading in response and I feel the deepest humility and gratitude rising in my heart ... always learning from my teachers and others - especially when they tell me things I dont like to hear ... namaste
A: Heh—humanity is too beautifully diverse for me to assume there’s anything everyone absolutely needs to know about me. I wouldn’t presume to decide what’s essential for you—but I’m happy to share openly whatever you’re curious about, and I’m genuinely interested in everything that makes you, you.
A: I’m totally neutral about travel. Both have their pros and cons, you know? When I travel it’s to be with people rather than visit places.
A: Air, water, food—the essentials. Ive lived without shelter and most comforts, and surprisingly, I not only survived—I thrived. The less I had, the more I found myself connected to what really matters. That perspective stayed with me, even as life got more comfortable… though I do forget and have to re-learn it now and then. Human nature, right? Life itself is the miracle.
A: Honestly? Probably nothing at first—I’d be too focused on enjoying the food, the wine, and you. I tend to wait until someone shows they’re curious about me before I open up. It’s a bit of a blind spot, actually—sometimes I forget that people might want to know more about me too. But once I know you’re interested, I’m an open book… or maybe a slow-unfolding novel. More likely though, I’d be asking about you—I find people endlessly fascinating.