A: At 18, I left home and traveled around the world—16 countries in one year. Across Canada, over to China, then all over Southeast Asia, finishing by biking up and down Europe until I was completely broke. I met my very first sugar daddy in Austria. That trip changed me. For starters, I left straight and came home queer, but more than that, it became the foundation for much of who I would go on to become. It gave me a real thirst for exploration. I will never be as wild and free as I was then—I’m sure that can be said for most of us—so I’m really glad I chose to do something so unhinged with that part of my life.
A: I would much rather get you to share about yourself. I love when someone is surprised with just how much they ended up sharing or just how intimate it was. Everyone has a story, I live for hearing yours but if you would like, I have a couple really good ones.
A: Let's be honest here... my dick. It is often the thing that sets me apart and I am cool with that.
A: I try to be as carefree and wild as I can within the confines of a full-time professional government job. I enjoy being cheeky—even a little bad—mysterious, or living dangerously. In reality, I am very calculated, intentional, and principled. I have a lot of room to move when it comes to my ideas and plans, and I actively work to create space for you or to meet you where you’re at. Kindness, thoughtfulness, and being nice come easily to me. The bedroom is really the only place where I allow myself to be sadistic, and despite my otherwise contrary day-to-day behavior, I still surprise myself with how far I am willing to take it.
A: You’re safe with me. I have never stolen anything from anyone, and I would never intentionally harm, insult, or put you at risk. I was raised right, and as a baseline for all people, I expect the same in return. Every day I head out into the world with the intention to do no harm. Life is hard, and doing good can sometimes feel like too much to ask, but it is never too much to ask—or expect—that I will not harm or be harmed.