A: Warmth, discretion, and emotional intelligence. I read a room well, I listen, and I’m honest. Sometimes that honesty means telling someone I’m not the right match. I’m also reliable. If I commit to something, I show up fully.

A: I don’t treat this as one-size-fits-all. I care about whether we actually connect, and I’ll be upfront if I don’t think I’m the right person for what you want. That honesty is rare. When I say yes, it’s because I know I can make your time worth it. Add a sense of style, a writer’s mind, and good conversation, and you get someone memorable.

A: Horny intellect.

A: I lift/run/do yoga a few times a week and walk everywhere in New York. I eat clean most of the time, but I’ll never turn down a great meal or a good glass of wine.

A: Chemistry matters to me more than anything. I’m not the right fit for everyone, and I don’t pretend to be. If I don’t think I can give someone the experience they’re looking for, I’ll say so and pass on the opportunity rather than show up as anything less than my best. When it does click, you’ll have my full attention, along with discretion, respect, and a good time.

A: I’m curious about people. I like learning what someone cares about, what makes them laugh, and what they don’t say out loud. I work in an industry where paying attention is basically my job, and it carries into how I connect with people. I enjoy that I can be easygoing and present without losing my edge. I’m good company whether it’s a long dinner, a quiet night in, or something a bit more wild. Chemistry is most important to me.