RealDomMan's Pornstar Interview

My Pornstar Interview
Masculine, intelligent and direct. My dominance comes naturally, grounded in real experience living D/s rather than playing a role. Whether it's dinner, drinks, travel, a night out, or simply hanging out, my dominance is genuine and doesn't change. Submissives, slaves, and masochists will be drawn to my intimidating, aggressive and intense energy, tempered by a magnetic confidence.

I'm not for everyone, and I'm not trying to be.

Discretion is absolute.
Q: If we sat on the beach and drank wine and ate great food just you and I, what would you tell me about yourself and your life?

A: Probably considerably more than I planned to. 😉 But I'd spend just as much time learning about you. Give me wine, great food and an interesting man, and the conversation could go almost anywhere. You'll figure out my personality soon enough.

Q: What are 5 things you can’t live without?

A: Freedom. Competition. Travel. Great food. Interesting people.

Q: Tell us a little about yourself, if you were to pick something what would you like others to absolutely know about you?

A: I don't alter myself to become more universally appealing. What you see is genuinely what you get. There are layers you'll only discover in person, but none of them require me to pretend to be someone else.

Q: What are your hobbies, what do you like to do in your spare time?

A: Sports are a big one, both playing and watching. I also love movies, cooking, puzzles and anything that involves building, assembling or figuring out how something works. I'm naturally curious and can disappear down a rabbit hole learning about something completely random. I like hobbies that keep either my body or my brain occupied.

Q: How do you go the 'Extra Mile' in your life?

A: I pay attention. I listen, remember details and notice what people respond to. If something matters to me, I don't do it halfway. That applies to the people in my life and the experiences I create. Generic doesn't particularly interest me.

Q: What do you do for fun?

A: I'm happiest when I'm doing something. Sports have always been a big part of my life. I competed at the collegiate and professional level when I was younger, and I still play, train and follow them. Add great restaurants, nightlife, beaches and spontaneous plans, and I'm usually in.

Q: Tell us about the best experience you have had in life.

A: I don't have one, and I hope I never do. I've had incredible experiences and met people I never would have imagined crossing paths with. I don't want my greatest experience to already be behind me. I'm still looking for it.

Q: What distinguishes you from all the other people you know?

A: I don't need to manufacture presence. At 6'4", masculine, assertive and naturally commanding, I'm difficult to ignore. I'm educated, professionally successful and well traveled, but I can command a room without needing to be the loudest man in it.

Q: What would you say are your greatest attributes?

A: Confidence, intelligence, decisiveness and loyalty. I'm extremely direct, sometimes painfully so, calm under pressure and fiercely loyal to the people I care about. I don't pretend to agree with people just to make them comfortable.

Q: What is your specialty?

A: Power exchange. I'm a Master/Dom drawn to submissives, slaves and masochists. I enjoy structure, obedience, discipline and the psychological surrender of control. My dominance can also be intensely physical and demanding. I'm not interested in playing a character or performing someone's idea of a Dom. I want a genuine D/s dynamic.

Q: What do you enjoy most about yourself?

A: I know who I am and I'm comfortable being exactly that. I don't need everyone to understand me, agree with me or approve of my choices. There's a lot of freedom in being comfortable in your own skin.

Q: How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?

A: Travel, easily. I'm on planes regularly, throughout the U.S. and internationally. I love discovering new cities, great food, nightlife and places I haven't experienced before. I enjoy being home too. I just rarely stay there long enough to qualify as a homebody.

Q: What are your lifestyle specifics that makes who you are?

A: I've built my life around independence. I have a successful career, great friends, travel often and enjoy the freedom to decide where I'm going, what I'm doing and who gets to come along. I work hard, enjoy my life and don't spend much time asking permission.

Q: What kind of diet and fitness regimen do you follow?

A: Fitness is part of my lifestyle. I train consistently with an emphasis on strength and maintaining a strong, masculine build. I pay attention to nutrition and protein, but I'm not obsessive. I still enjoy a great dinner, drinks and dessert when I want them.

Q: What would you like your readers to know about you that is unique and even a bit personal?

A: People are usually surprised by the contrast. I can be extremely commanding and intense, but I'm also social, curious, adventurous and fiercely protective of people I care about. I enjoy figuring out how people think and what makes them tick. There's considerably more personality behind the pictures.

Q: What should others absolutely know about you?

A: I'm naturally dominant, direct and intense. It isn't a persona I put on for an hour. I like control, structure, obedience and making the decisions. I'm comfortable with who I am and have no interest in making myself more universally appealing. We'll either click or we won't, and I'm perfectly comfortable with both.

RealDomMan

Location: Chicago, IL
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