A: Honestly, I would rather hear about YOU!

And…I’m a grower, not a shower.

A: I’ll name two: Hot showers and purpose.

A: I love to rim. It’s true! I even wrote a guide. I’m one of the best rimmers out there and frequently clients tell me I’m the best they have ever had. Total tops, bi, and straight guys love my rimming skills. I have a reputation for turning tops to bottoms, or at least many of them discover the joys of flipping for the first time with me. Be careful; I might seduce you, and you will probably like it.

Ok, two things. My beard. It’s really soft and sensual. I use it to stroke and tease your body while my hands, arms, legs, and whole body are busy giving you the best massage of your life. My beard is also quite pleasant against your hole, the small of your back, your neck, and almost anywhere else I explore your body with a little touch, lick, or kiss. It’s so erotic. You have to try it out in person.

A: Literally, I go many extra miles when I travel to make myself available in other cities. It’s a lot of extra time, cost, and effort bringing all my massage and kink equipment, but I do it to deliver a high quality experience. I stay busy when I tour. I keep prices the same and make up the difference in volume.

Figuratively, I go the extra mile by taking notes to help me remember every client, their preferences, their stories, and what is important to them.

A: I work six days a week as a masseur and I squeeze in gym time during the week. In my spare time I work on my small farm. There is always something to fix, plant, or harvest. Family time is important to me. I take downtime watching streaming service shows, movies, and listening to podcasts.

Gayish Podcast interviewed me in October 2025. Topic: s*x workers. If you would like to listen to me talk about the male s*x work industry, look up episode 463, plus bonus content available for patreon supporters of the show. I’m considering starting a podcast of my own, but not ready for the time commitment it takes to stay consistent and put out quality work. I’m busy enough with all the other things going on in my life. Maybe at some point. Stay tuned.

A: I live on a small farm, 15 acres of avocado orchard. That keeps me busy when I am not working at my studio or traveling for work. I enjoy the simple pleasures in life. Free time working and relaxing on the farm is one of those pleasures.

A: I don’t know about my “greatest” life experience, but skydiving at 19 years old is certainly a highlight. My tandem instructor inspected my pack and said there was an issue with the chute. Later he brushed it off and said it’s fine. In the plane, I said if he was willing to jump, so was I. So we jumped. And it was awesome. Had it not worked out, I figured of all the ways to go, this would be one of the best.

I attended Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, for Architecture, which is one of the most competitive programs in the country. I studied French in high school and college so that I could study abroad in France. I took college courses in French, staying with a host family outside Paris. Out of college, I worked as an architect focusing on resort hospitality, entertainment, and retail. I eventually moved to Dallas for a couple years to lead design teams working on multi family housing projects.

If we get that far, I’ll tell you about the rest of my life.

A: I find purpose in what I do. I deliver safety, acceptance, and pleasure to all kinds of people. There is nothing more satisfying to me than holding space men need to explore their whole human selves without judgement or negative feelings getting in the way. My approach makes for an excellent experience.

Other personal things and random trivia...

I almost married my religious high school girlfriend after dating on and off through college. When I couldn’t guarantee her I would be “healed” of attraction to men by our wedding date, we decided to break it off. Dodged a bullet there. What a turn my life has taken. I’ll share more if you ask.

I was born on a Friday the 13th. With me, you always get extra lucky though.

My heritage is Irish, Swedish, and Northern Italian, among other mixed European ancestry. I trace my earliest American roots to 17th century political refugees.

A: I take all kinds of clients. All ages, body types, races, abilities, and other characteristics. I want you to feel comfortable reaching out knowing that I am a professional. I find purpose and satisfaction in providing quality experiences for all types of people. While other men on this platform reject you based on something shallow, I will be glad to have you exactly as you are.

That said, here are just a few of my niches:

First timers, young and old. I’m patient and kind. Whether you need a few dates to feel comfortable first, or just want to have your moment on your own terms, I am honored to be your first. I make it special, pleasurable, and an experience you will never forget. All at your own pace.

Massage combo with full service. You CAN have it all. You don’t have to choose between an excellent massage and intimacy anymore. I’m one of the few to deliver both equally well.

A lot of my best clients are former exclusive tops who enjoy flipping or bottoming for me. Be warned! I tend to seduce tops.

My rimming skills are sensational. I wrote a guide. The secret is to truly love it and I do. I will have even the strictest top begging for more to follow in no time!

A: It takes a special combination of qualities to succeed in my line of work. Here are just a few I believe uniquely qualify me to be one of your favorite and best hires: compassion, experience, openness, kindness, patience, flexibility, curiosity, genuineness, business acumen, work ethic, collaboration skills, creativity, charm, wit, self awareness, and emotional intelligence.

One of the most important things about this work which 90% of the providers on this platform miss is that we fill a universal need: for acceptance, safety, exploration without judgment, self-expression, self-love, and companionship. These needs extend to all people, no matter their identity, age, body type, race, ability, religion, creed, health status, relationship status, citizenship status, language, or gender expression. We’re all humans with real human needs. I take pride in being a safe space for all.

I take my work very seriously, but I do not take myself seriously.

My focus is on YOUR pleasure, even when for you, your pleasure is all about mine. Tell me when that’s the case and I will mentally adjust. Otherwise it’s ALL ABOUT YOU!

A: That I am happy just being me. I don’t need to perform to be liked, loved, or worthy. I am enough. I’m not perfect; I acknowledge my flaws and love myself anyway.

I’ve learned to better establish and maintain boundaries in my personal and professional lives. Being a people pleaser and a peacemaker for most of my life has its benefits for those around me, but these qualities are fraught with liabilities for myself. I’m much better about self protection and letting things roll of my shoulders now. My patience is much higher than most, but I won’t let anyone walk all over me. I’m a solid, mature, well developed version of me and I’m getting better with each passing year. I’m proud of the person I’ve become.

One of my character flaws is that I care deeply about others, about social justice and making ours a better world. Noble attributes, and parts of me I like the most, but it can sap my energy and consume me at times.

Other things I enjoy about myself are my wit and sense of humor. I’m not afraid to drop a well placed pun or use triple entendres. Dark humor is my style too. Slapstick, even better. Absurd humor is priceless. Satire, parody: yes, please.

A: I’m a licensed architect in California. I love it and miss it. I’m a smart, dedicated worker. Architects are underpaid. That’s among the many reasons this is now my full time job vs a side gig. I love what I do now, and I choose to do it over traditional white collar work.

My partner and I own a farm in San Diego County. I work this job to make my primary living, but also to invest in our burgeoning agricultural business and our family. It’s important to me to support our shared dreams.

The money I earn doesn’t go toward lavish vacations, drugs, or wild experiences. It all goes toward building our future. My partner has chronic health conditions and can only work part time. Currently I’m trying to figure out how to get my mom into a new living situation she can afford.

Looks fade, and I can’t do this forever, so catch me while you can! Even though I have the rare combination of qualities to do this work well, looks are unfortunately more important than talent to most new clients shopping around. My regulars come first for the outward appeal, end up liking me for me, and return for my talent and good vibes. I hope you will too.

A: I enjoy arts and culture. Visiting museums and exhibitions is one of my favorite leisure activities.

I consume films, shows, and pop culture. Drag shows are always fun.

I listen to a lot of podcasts and audiobooks on various topics from science to economics to geography, to trivia. I’m a well rounded critical thinker, and an inquisitive soul. Learning new things is a lifelong passion. I’m full of random, obscure facts.

A: I’m a genuine, straightforward man. No games. I leverage my emotional intelligence, intuition, maturity, and strong sense of self to keep me grounded and make clients feel at ease.

People tend to feel naturally comfortable and connected with me. Some clients feel safe enough with me to open up about things they haven’t told anyone for many years. I’m an empathetic listener.

I’m real, I’m talented, and I take pride in being myself. I don’t lie about my age. What you see is exactly what you get.

Some clients hire me as their agent, to vet and source talent on their behalf, or to organize groups of other hired men to play with the client and I. Over time, I’ve developed discernnent and become adept at connecting the right men with the right clients. I weed out the unfortunately large amount of bs, fakery, flakery, attitude, and sketchy characters so the client doesn’t have to deal with it. Shopping for, and communicating with providers is time consuming. At times even daunting, annoying, frustrating, and even confusing. Let me do the work. I want my clients to benefit from experiences with the best men in the business.

A: I travel for work twice a year for 4-5 weeks at a time, hopping from city to city. I travel to the following cities around April and October: Tucson, Albuquerque, Lubbock, Dallas, and El Paso. I offer massage, full service, companionship and more on these trips. I no longer serve other cities, except for clients wanting to fly me out for longer engagements.

I’m in San Diego most of the time; winter months November-March, and summer months May-September. I’m a native San Diegan and most of my family is still in SD. I have many loyal clients, some that see me once a week or once a month. I can’t serve them very well when I’m on the road. I prioritize those relationships. It’s just as much work to win over a new client in either case, but happy repeat clients at home pay dividends again and again. I love my regulars and treat them well.

A: I work out at my local gym about 5 days a week. Sometimes I miss a day when I’m booked solid. Weekends are typically busy with clients. I find time to work out whenever I can. It makes me feel my best.

I started a new diet under the supervision of my independent doctor in 2026. Ask me in person if you're curious. I feel better than ever. Lost 20 lbs and my blood pressure is ideal again. I didn't realize how many things were low key making me sick, even some traditionally healthy foods. I'm not supposed to eat sweets, but when I do, real sugar is the only way to go. Sugar substitutes like stevia, aspartame, and others give me headaches.

I’m a boy next door type, not a muscle man, but I'm working on improving my body. I take an all natural approach to life and strive for balance. I’m not everyone’s ideal body type or preferred look, and that’s ok. I’m not “perfect” but I’m healthy and incredibly comfortable in my own skin. That’s what matters most to me.

My body isn’t even my best asset. It’s my excellent service, personality, work ethic, and talent that keep clients coming back again and again.