A: I'm a collector of rare aroids, a lover of natural wines, and a frequent flier. I'm also a violinist in a community orchestra.
A: While I live in the Bay Area now, I did spend my most formative years (middle school and high school) in the Appalachian South. Growing up queer and Asian American there was somewhat of a harrowing experience, even though now I love visiting there. I had to leave my hometown to really discover myself, of course this is an iterative process that is still unfolding.
A: Probably that I am unapologetically myself. I'm easy going but very opinionated, so if you ask me a thought-provoking question, be prepared for a detailed answer.
A: I love to attend galas, fine dining, classical music concerts, and ballets.
A: I'm definitely more of a homebody. As a child (before I was even able to sexualize myself), one of my biggest platonic fantasies was inviting all the boys in my class over for dinner and cooking a very elaborate meal.
A: I don't take things too personally and am not as outcome oriented moreso than I am process oriented. As long as we engage respectfully and there is no harm inflicted, I am generally pretty open to debating ideas and hearing opinions.
A: I have a penchant for nice things - probably one of my best and worst qualities. I love designer furniture (love mid century modern pieces), fine dining, and luxury travel. I recently started getting into art collecting and am starting a small collection of neotraditional Asian art.