Being a gerontophile is a vicarious lifestyle. I get taught a lot from people with lived experience. Many guys I met on here in particular have some of the best attitudes I want to learn more from and be about. The patterns to be recognized and basic fundamentals to operate by to make the best of each connection/experience. A lot of things go just plain unlearned by a so many too. Don't hit the plateau and coast. Take the chance and engage. Psychedelics and "but stuff" have some very simple principles in common. "Open up" and "Let go". Through seggs or lack of, thats all it is.

I have this teacher who trained me to take big ones. He was patient and open-minded enforced his own set of boundaries without anxiety or insecurity. I know next to nothing about the guy himself but every time we link is about applying what I've learned to up the bar and half the time we do. We can all have that guy in our lives, past or even future. I wanna be yours, you mine or both. Point and shoot. Shiis not that complicated.

What we do on here is a spiritual communion, sorry but it's always that. I'm no spirit guide but even atheists know the difference between jacking and the unforgettable. We need this as a species and it shows in everything we do. The "John meets Joe" story will only get you so far and there's always gonna be more bs to deal with that way.
Lets do the synchronize, energy channels agape and blast tf off! That Thai-chi shii where no movement is wasted and everything is infinitely more pleasurable. I'll take the lead, rev you all the way up and extract everything you have to give until your heaving, sweaty and raaaaaan tf thru.
I made a guy blow from 1 stroke before, that doesn't even MAKE SENSE! It was all connection and alignment. Align on something healthy and sustainable. Do it right, not some shut down Folsom Gulch escape. I'm not some fake life-coach/burner. We are here for medicine. Who knows the difference?

A private chat with a rent.men employee? I'd thank you for the service and swap stories. I bet theres a TON of stories on the other end of this site.
This one time I got into it with customer service here. Someone called me up once and I was dumber then so didn't ask for much info on him. When I arrived the vibe was off and I knew it wasn't going to work (one of maybe 4 times in several years). After chatting for a bit over a beer I apologized and said best of luck on your search. Whether it was my responsibility to communicate his needs or mine he left me a 1 star review without any service or compensation being exchanged. I plead my case but the rent.men employee basically left it at that.
Not being able to say "no" to someone I only just met on this site is kind of a huge deal. I didn't care about the client, rent.men let me down by not protecting me with the main thing we as workers need to be safe and healthy on here. That was a long time ago and honestly I've had a million more beautiful experiences on here to more than compensate looking back. I hope it was a fluke and no other workers here have been punished for exercising their right to just say "no". Cheers bro

Keeping the ancient art of hitting on people in public alive. Every 20 or so times it works every time. Some of these straight daddies reeeeeeeally need to hear how hot they are. Especially the homophobes. Nothing beats that look when someone is offended for a sec and then smiles at you.
I've met SEVERAL gorgeous men that way that gave up on finding compatibility and haven't hooked up in over a decade. Nothing purer to feed the soul than that kind of healing. Then the added bonus of getting to train them (my favorite). Hit on foos!!