RentMen: What are your lifestyle specifics that makes who you are?
CokiaNokia: Happiness is really a scam, if I had to be honest. It's not that I dont think happiness and peace are great emotional experiences, but they are just one section of life's entire tapestry. To me a life fully lived is one woven with uncomfortable emotions as well as comfortable ones; to do anything we care about means experiencing anxiety, pleasure, sadness, grief, excitement, warmth, worry, and more. Society constantly told me that I needed to be happy, satisfied, and content all the time, but, in reality, that's just not realistic. Human beings are dynamic creatures who change all the time, which means we're going to experience a ton of different things. What really, really drives me is doing the things that I care about and connecting with people, all while acting as the person that I want to be, without judgement or harsh criticism. I try my best to live within my values of empathy, connection, care, and fun :))