RentMen:
What is your specialty?
spoil_keveen:
Probably people who want more than a performance.
I’m at my best when there’s real attraction, conversation, humor, a little tension, and enough freedom for the chemistry to become whatever it’s going to become.
I don’t really sell a character. My niche is making the experience feel human.
RentMen:
What kind of diet and fitness regimen do you follow?
spoil_keveen:
I go to the gym, I take care of myself, and I try to keep some balance.
I’m not interested in turning food or fitness into a religion. I like looking good, feeling good, and still being able to enjoy dinner without calculating the emotional consequences of a french fry.
RentMen:
What are your lifestyle specifics that makes who you are?
spoil_keveen:
I organize my life so I can change it.
I like enough structure to keep everything from falling apart, but enough freedom to throw the plan out when something better shows up. I move around, disappear into projects, meet people I probably never would have met otherwise, and occasionally decide halfway through the day that the day is going somewhere completely different.
I think that freedom to change direction is a big part of who I am. I don’t need everything figured out. I just need to know the choice is still mine.
RentMen:
What would you say are your greatest attributes?
spoil_keveen:
I’m sensitive. Very.
I feel things deeply, I get attached to memories, words can stay with me longer than they probably should, and sometimes something small can affect me more than something objectively huge.
For a long time I think I treated sensitivity like something I was supposed to toughen out of myself. I don’t anymore.
I’d rather feel too much than go through life barely touched by anything.
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